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Good day, Eugenia.
It is necessary to work not in this direction.
Clarify why he is boulyat in what weaknesses of your son and.... make him stronger in those areas. And the question will be solved almost by itself. BUT!!!!! whatever happens stand on his side.
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Good afternoon, Katerina.
Who needs it, you or your daughter?
If she doesn't complain and she's fine, then it's your inner "I'm a jerk" talking.
I can not give any recommendations until it is not clear who has a problem in fact the girl or her mother.
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Good afternoon, Natalia.
Yes, this behavior is not an abnormality.
What to do? To find ways and methods of teaching your daughter to control and express her emotions. this is her problem area.
At this age, fairy tale therapy and playing dolls with role-playing work well.
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Good afternoon
Start with a gastroendocrinologist.
Then a good ENT.
Next an allergist and only after them if nothing is found psychotherapist neurologist.
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Good afternoon Olga and who told you to deprive cartoons and so on for showing feelings?
This is the worst thing you could do to solve this problem.
I strongly recommend to go to a story therapist or a specialist in art psychology, sand therapy.
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Good afternoon! My 6.5 year old son has started to cry a lot and often in kindergarten. He says that he does not know why, he is worried that he will not be taken away. He always goes to the garden with tears in the morning, then quickly calms down, has friends, plays well, participates in matinees.
There were no shocks, at first he started crying in the evening, I pick him up as soon as he goes for a walk, during changing he cries. After a week he started crying in the middle of the day, he says I don't know, he just wants to go home.
Help figure it out, the caregivers are angry, the kids have started laughing.
He's a regular kid at home. We deprived him of cartoons and phone, after he started crying more often, but there is no effect. He won't talk.
What do you recommend?
Thank you in advance!
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Good afternoon, my child is two years old. Does not eat for 6 days, only on milk or on malonezhki, a flat reflex to everything that I do not offer. Even sat eating, he saw and threw up.
In general, it all started in kindergarten, where I started to complain about him that he had a gag reflex and once he even threw up in the garden, but at home there were no such problems, he ate everything. In the garden I told him not to be forced to eat if he didn't want to. Two months passed, after vomiting in the garden. And then he got sick, he had a high fever, cough, stomatitis and he stopped eating. So now he's gagging on all his food.
I don't know what to do or who to turn to.
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Hello. My daughter is 2,5 years old, she reacts very emotionally if something does not go according to her plan and desire. She throws things, if there is a plate with food, the plate flies, she hits me and my husband. This is all accompanied by screaming and crying. Can you tell me if this is normal or not? And how to react in such moments?
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My daughter is 4 years old, she does not speak in the garden at all, she nods, waves her head, but does not speak. At the same time at home and with close relatives she speaks perfectly well, in 2 languages fluently.
In the garden she feels constrained, does not have fun, does not fool around like other children. Although she goes to the garden normally, she says it's a good kindergarten, she has friends. How can I liberate her so that she can talk socially?
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Hello. 9 years old child bully at school, constantly bullying, pushing, can call names. What to do? How to put these bullies in their place?
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Good afternoon.
Judging by the description, it is time for you to see a child psychotherapist
It can be both hormonal and psychosocial problems.
To begin with, you need a good specialist to make a diagnosis, prescribe tests, and as a result suggest in what direction to move and what to do next.
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Good day.My daughter is 6 years old, she has to be asked 100 times to do something.She reacts to requests by whining, does nothing.If I start scolding, she says: "This is not my house, I want to go to my house.Nobody loves me".
My daughter is also shy. I always try not to let her see me at concerts.
I and my husband try to support my daughter in everything. We never shame her if she fails.
The teachers, the coach praise it.
What do we (parents) do?
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Good afternoon, Elena.
It may be just in time.
It is worth to address to the child psychotherapist and pass his diagnosis.
Go
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Good afternoon.
Why don't you have more family and friends watch her perform for you?
I mean, find a stage and sit down to watch.
For starters, she needs to perform for a loyal, not very large audience that sits in the "audience" and looks at her seriously.
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Good afternoon Venus.
There is no need for your son to go to a psychologist))))))
You, as a mother, should go to a psychologist. And work through those errors in education and socilization that you definitely allow since the son becomes feminine. With a specialist will change a little strategy of interaction in the family and your son still has time to accept a masculine social role
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Good afternoon Elena. Ideally, you should see a crisis child psychologist
As an intermediate option you should read with him psychotherapeutic stories and fairy tales for children and teenagers on the theme of fear, horror, ghosts, etc.
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Good day Lera.
You should not worry such a reaction now is the norm of socialization of this age. have patience, and an explanatory base that cool you will start doing now (Moment of leaving the mani) he will outgrow it within a year.
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Hello, my brother is 3 years old, I sit with him myself when mom goes to training, before he let her go normally, he understood that mom will come home and did not cry, but now, nothing has changed, mom still goes to training, but the child just does not want to let mom go at all, a big tantrum every time, why has it become so, before everything was normal
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Good afternoon. My son is 10 years old. A week ago was at a birthday party at a classmate, where they conducted scary tests, reached the end, not scared. But after that there was a sense of fear, says I'm scared...but can not explain what exactly to be afraid of.What can be done.
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Good afternoon!
I am worried about my son 13 years old, grew up in a family without a father with me mom and grandma, in a loving family, in prosperity, did not refuse in anything
I worry a lot that almost does not communicate with boys, always communicated and befriended only with girls, I notice the habits of a girl, for example, the gym teacher says that the lesson runs like a girl, that is, hands held like a girl while running, at 13 years old does not break the voice kaa at classmates, there is no hair in the groin and armpits, did not notice erections in the morning.
I'm very worried about his future
what can be done?
She won't go to counseling, categorically.
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Hello, my daughter is 4 years old. Recently started dancing, she likes it quietly leaves the hall, after dancing is always happy, goes with desire, on the question will go more whether dancing, always says go and goes. But she is very shy. Soon the first concert, how can I help her not to be afraid, not to be shy and go on stage?
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Hello Olga. I am a grandmother of a 1.9 year old grandson, I am very alarmed by his lack of interest in any activities other than what he did in half a year: throwing any toy and crawling to chase it around the apartment; if he bathes, all the attention to the pisun - and touches intensely and hands on the water strongly beats that the water beats the pisun. But the main thing is that it is impossible to interest him in anything, all day long he jumps on his butt with his legs tucked up and on the sofa and on the bed, even on the floor. Words do not speak, even mommy, daddy, give, only akaka. Everything you say to him, he understands 100 percent. Maybe it's too early to sound the alarm?
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Olga, thank you so much for your time! And pointed out where to go next! Thank you very much!
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Good afternoon Guest
Yes, of course he will remember it (or rather sometimes it will come up).
But whether it will affect sexuality, as well as whether there will be shame depends solely on the reaction of adults and how to further develop events in the yard. I'd recommend removing contact in that yard.
Oh yes and it's worth remembering not to leave children with older children in places where you can't see them.
I have a lot of cases like yours, unfortunately. Mostly boys.
Be more vigilant.
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Good day Natalia Such behavior at this age is not a deviation from the norm.
Here or do as you want or for less trauma to do as he wants in any case after 4 4,5 he will outgrow this problem and remember about it also will not be.
What to do? It's a question of your nerves.)))).
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Good afternoon, Alena.
I don't want to scold, but I suspect your son has a slight delay in more than just speech.
Try giving him a cartoon. A favorite.
While we watch the series of food. had time to watch the second one did not have time to remove everything and the cartoon and food.
All this jokingly and with smiles. patiently working out the child's conditioned reflex (without changing the method) day by day.
27 days.
Find Pavlov's dog experience and familiarize yourself with it.
And yes, accept that your son should for a month to become a dog and you Pavlov and therefore patiently develop the necessary conditioned reflex.
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Good afternoon, Alina.
I don't know if you're a mom or a colleague, but!
It's either intelligence or aptitude.
At this age all 5 types of intellect are not yet formed only emotional is more developed so that methods to determine them of course there are but they are quite difficult to interpret and are often inaccurate.
And here are the propensities... read socionics and children's types of psyche and personality.
There are also tests to determine the type.
If you understand the subject, you'll be able to snap this question like a seed.
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Good afternoon, Sonia.
You need to consult an endocrinologist, gynecologist and therapist.
At this age, hormonal fluctuations of the thyroid, pancreas, ovaries and adrenal glands can manifest themselves in such a way.
It is worth to check them and their hormones too and then only think about a psychologist
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Good afternoon, Eugenia.
Don't force it.
Prepare for school. It is better to go to it without the experience of kindergarten socialization than with a negative experience of its own.
I recommend going to 0 class pre-motivating the child coolness of learning.
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Good afternoon Elena. Ideally, girls should not spend the night separately from their mother until the age of 7. Emotional importance of the father comes from 7 -8 years before that he is a giver and impressor for the daughter.
So it's up to you to decide, but no, you can't take away the dates either. Communication with the father is necessary for mental stability and proper development of the child's emotional intelligence.
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Good afternoon, Elena.
It's not your headache.
And you can't force the boy. He's a future man. He has the right to have his own rules and principles. Yes, he does now, and even so.
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Hello, Olga. I am divorcing my husband, moved with my daughters (3 and 5 years old). Should I gradually reduce visits with their father, so that they would quickly get used to his absence from home? I see this as a way out of the children's stress faster than if they would sleep over at his place 2-3 times a week
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My son is 4.5 years old, played with boys in the yard, then a boy 9 years old called to play desire in the entrance and there he first asked my son to dance without underpants and underwear, then showed his penis and asked to take in his mouth, then took in my son's mouth and kissed my son on the ass! My son ran out and came to tell me everything in the form of laughter. What to do in this situation, how to help the child that it did not affect the psyche negatively, what to say, will remember this son 4.5 years? Will it affect his sexuality in the future, his orientation, will there be a sense of shame! How can I help my child?
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Hello!
The child is 6 years old.
Doesn't want to go to day care, cries terribly, what to do? Thank you!
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Hello, I'm 12 years old and I have panic attacks, fear of dying... I also have a feeling that I am not alive, I am very afraid to die, I cry a lot, and because of this pain in my head I can not sleep and weakness.... What should I do?
I've read a lot of crazy stuff on the internet about fatal insomnia and I'm even more scared... My heart is pounding frantically, I can't sleep, I've been worried for 2 weeks... I can't go to a paid psychologist, because I have no parents and only my grandfather from the guardianship.. Please help me, how can I cope with this?
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Hello!
Can I ask for your help, please.
What methodology would you recommend for determining the type of intelligence of children aged 6-10? There are tests on the Internet for older children to determine the type of intelligence, but for younger children, it is very problematic, because they have just started to write, read and count.
It probably won't be a very in-depth diagnosis, but at least learn a little bit about what the child is prone to.
I would be very grateful! Thank you)
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Good afternoon, please advise us how to proceed. My son is 5 years old, can not eat normally, constantly holds food in his mouth, mucilate it, is in the clouds, and can sit at the plate and 1.5 hours (even if hungry and asked to eat) if you do not tell him constantly to chew. This problem for a long time never really wanted to eat in principle. Sometimes that and scold him for it, because often because of this we are late and tried time to limit the meal, no change. We eat all together at the table, sometimes can eat faster, if you play with him on the race, who will eat faster and that, you need to periodically remind to chew. We don't know what to do anymore...He had a speech delay, now everything is fine, maybe it's important.
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Good evening! Sin 2.7 years old rizko reacts to the change in the external appearance of mom. Not allowed to let loose hair, vdyagaty cap, eyepieces, farbuvaty eyewear. In such moments screams, cries until you do not close the wrist or take off the cap, etc. There was a situation that when the eyes are stuffed, he does not go to his mother at all, chases her away, does not let himself be moved, says: "Let Tato do it, you are bad, he is afraid or he is strongly affected.
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Hello we have a very strange situation five-year-old child of my husband from a previous marriage coming to visit us in a categorical form refuses to communicate with his mother on video link and even just on the phone, just to shouting that she was removed and not shown, turned off the phone, although with other people he perfectly talks and on audio and video link
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Good afternoon Guest. You should make an appointment with a psychotherapist and possibly get a hormone checkup.
It seems very likely that you are either in hormonal zazbalance, or in acute lethargic stress or miskirovnoy postpartum depression.
Add in one of those or himeropecia and maybe relationship problems with your spouse and voila, "Mom's a monster."
But it's all davolno quickly and easily treatable, provided a good specialist and correctly diagnosed.
Self-treatment is not advised as well as to implement any recommendations without examination and proper diagnosis.
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Good afternoon Svetlana.
There's nothing wrong with you.
It is a normal tendency to want a younger brother or sister.
Your mistake is that you are overreacting and blaming yourself for something.
Maybe it has some basis, then you should see a psychologist and work on it.
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Good afternoon,
Don't.
Wait. It's up to them to make contact.
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Hello. I am an overly anxious mom. I realize it myself, I try to control myself, but often in situations (which in my opinion can be dangerous for the child) behave very emotionally, I can yell, react emotionally. Daughter 6 years old - she stopped with age to cause me such uncontrollable anxiety. Son 4 and he is like all boys hustling, and mobile, according to his age, but I as a hen hen behind him everywhere, uncontrollable fear that he may happen to something. Thus I even often limit his freedom of action can be said probably, always trying to be near and insure (as it seems to me if suddenly, although this suddenly may not happen, but I am constantly like a spring). I myself am wildly tired to be in such a state - it is very exhausting - as a consequence, I began to notice that more and more often began to snap at children in principle, not only being in a state of anxiety, but as if already reflexively, although I could and could not react so violently. I don't want to be a monster mom. I love my children very much.
How can I calm my inner fear and anxiety about my children? At least a little bit, so that it does not interfere with the life of neither my children nor myself.
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Hello, my children, son 11 and daughter 8 have been asking for a baby for two years, what could be my mistake as a mother, if such a question has even arisen?
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Good afternoon Ludmila.
Do not look for what to drink better look for a good psychotherapist pass his examination and treat the root cause. And do not look for an opportunity to turn your daughter into a vegetable by taking sedatives without a clear diagnosis.
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Hello. Here's my story.
In 2022 when my son was 1.9 his father died(was a police officer). He remembered that he had a daddy, and that he could see his daddy in pictures/videos. He said that daddy was a policeman and caught bullies. Now my son is 3.7, on the photo he says that it is daddy, but due to his age his memories have already been replaced by new ones.
4 months after the death of my husband, my friend was around, we went out together, spent time together, socialized, in general. 2 months ago we decided to try a relationship and he came to live with us.
The whole time we have been friends, he has been good to the child and treats, play, pamper, pity. Since he started living with us, he became involved in the child's upbringing.
My son is a temperamental boy, + 3 year old crisis, in general sometimes it's not sweet for me.
And to top it all off, he's very intelligent for his age, understands a lot of things.
The man helps to talk to him, to explain something, in general the relationship is good. But sometimes my son resists remarks, says phrases "I will listen to my mother, not you".
And other stuff. I understand that, but I'd like to ask you a question.
Is it necessary and can I tell the child that there is a mom, and there is Valera (my man), that he is not just as a friend, but tries to be as close as dad, that he also gives his love, care and when he scolds, he tries to explain how to do something is not necessary, and brings how right it is.
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Hello. Girl, 11 years old. Daily tantrums in the same place. Can't stop for two hours. She can get her hands all twitchy. Can repeat the same words.
How can I help, what medications can I take?
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Good afternoon, Irina.
Why not?
Feelings, empathy, love is a very individual thing.
Just wait.
Either a little overgrowth or will love and continue and this energy will go into something wonderful like a profession and some super discovery based on vetirinaria or something else.
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go to the principal's office.
There's no point in stressing out a child just because someone has bliss.
And yes, at this age, a child should sleep with toys, clothes, etc. You can't forbid it.
Fight the bliss of an adult and something tells me that you are lying about the san pin. ))) or let them give a certified document where it is spelled out.
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Good afternoon, Jana.
I recommend that you enroll your daughter in a teenage crisis therapist. This is not an issue that a mother should try to deal with, especially since this is the age when a mother loses her authority.
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