Mistakes men make on a date.

So, you met a girl at our dating parties and what to do next?

Where to take a girl on a first date? What to give a girl on a first date? What to talk to a girl about on a first date? How long should the first date last? Let's talk about this and the mistakes that men most often make on this very first date.

Mistake #1: Giving a girl flowers/gifts on the first date.

DON'T!

If you like the girl very much, I understand that it is very difficult to resist the temptation to make her a surprise, and give at the meeting a small gift or a bouquet of flowers. Or a small and original prize. The girl, of course, will be very happy, but it will not add points to you, because it is you who should make an impression, not gifts/money/flowers. Plus where is the guarantee that you will guess with flowers, gifts, prizentami? Do you already know what kind of flowers she likes? What kind of chocolate she has? What is her room interior and what exactly she will put on the shelf to look, enjoy and remember the giver? In addition, such gifts, you show that the girl already has a very high value for you - you do not know her yet, not communicated especially not flirted not kissed not ... but already ready to invest time and money to search and purchase gifts, and it is still far from a fact that you like each other, because the date has not even begun and you are ready to throw money! Yes, and if you think that a gift will increase your chances of liking a girl - you do not know women well. You don't get a gift on a first date. It is better to leave such a surprise for subsequent meetings. (exceptions only those cases when you have long been communicating for example in "Vkontakte" and in fact already know a lot of things about each other, tastes, preferences and sootvetsettvenno already significant to each other).

Mistake #2: First date at the movie theater(brr!).

Many young people think it's a great idea on a first date to take a girl to the movie theater. I dare you to assure you, this is a very, very bad idea. This is certainly the easiest way to spend joint leisure time at the initial stage of acquaintance. But! In the movie you do not see each other well and very uncomfortable to communicate. In addition, if you pull on kisses "as in a romantic movie" then believe me kiss in a semi-dark movie theater with a stranger eto..... is not fantan and certainly not romantic. And for the first date communication and visual contact is very important and extremely necessary, so, on the first date it is better to walk in the park or sit in a cozy cafe.

Mistake #3: Show up hungry and start ordering food from a cafe/restaurant.

Dates are usually appointed in the evening, and it often happens that after work you did not have time to eat and came to the date hungry. The first thought of a hungry man - to combine the pleasant with the useful and have a dense dinner in the company of a beautiful lady. However, such a move will not be in your favor. On the first date you and the girl recognize each other, and for this you need to communicate. Communicate with a stuffed mouth - a bad tone, girls know this and will not appreciate your appetite properly. Therefore, limited to tea or coffee, and dinner after a date or satisfied with a snack before it. In addition, many girls (and not only girls) believe that as a man behaves at the table so he behaves and in bed. And believe me, she will carefully observe you, perhaps and imperceptibly for you. And here you are hungry order a bunch of food on your first date together and pounce on it. Imagine what kind of asociations can arise in a girl's brain about what you're capable of on your first night out? 😉

Mistake #4: Boring conversations.

YES on our parties of express dating you have recommendations about what to talk about, rules of communication and clearly regulated time and we create optimal conditions for acquaintance of occurrence of mutual sympathy but ..... You're on your own. And this themselves will destroy the most beautiful first impression of you. It should be remembered that the classic mistake of most men - tedious conversations about studies, work and weather, etc.. The bad thing is that this is said 90% men who do not know what to talk about in a girl, especially those who have recently met her. Interest such a conversation does not cause, and the girl with 100% probability will write you down the list of "the same as everyone else" or will hang the label "boring!". Also, you should, as I mentioned in the tips unequivocally avoid talking about politics, religion and former relationships.

Mistake #5: Too many compliments.

A constant stream of compliments gives the girl the impression that you like her too much, and if at this point you are still not liked enough, it will be evaluated negatively. In addition, the line between an active compliment-giver and flatterer is very blurred and imperceptible. It is worth being careful not to fall into the flatterer-seducer category.

Mistake #6: Date too long.

Even if you are very interesting on the first date with a girl and parting nehochochochuchit, try not to drag it out for a long time. Optimally - from 40 to 60 minutes. This is enough to get to know each other a little bit, indicate mutual sympathy and part on a pleasant note to want to soon meet again. On the first 2-3 dates it is important.

Mistake #7: Texting after a date.

A fatal mistake of men, which as a rule crosses out even the most beautiful date - a stream of calls and texts to the girl with words of admiration for her person and insanely interesting communication with her, with a reverent hope for a soon repeat meeting, praise and hopes for further development of the relationship. This behavior you kill the intrigue that the girl needs to you "fall for". You without a fight surrender their positions and odayazhayut rear, and she becomes not interested. Better short "I was glad to communicate, you're cute :)"

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