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Good afternoon Galina, your comment does not give enough information to understand what may be the basis of your misunderstanding.
Sign up for online counseling ideally with your husband, but you can do it alone.
As a rule of thumb 1 2 full consultations in such cases if not solve the problem will help to determine the exact vector of work and most importantly to find the root causes and strategy for solving the problem.
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My husband and I have been together for four years
Now I'm expecting a baby
Our problem is the inability to express feelings, minimal or no reaction to each other's problems, I don't feel loved, as if everything is done for me not out of sincere desire, but because "it is necessary", hence the irritation, silence, everything accumulates and is not solved.
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Good afternoon, Carina.
This is how much you want to twist your husband if you doubt and think that kissing is still possible and okay.
Of course he cheated on you and it does not matter whether it was kissing, petting blowjob, classic or not very sex.
It's definitely cheating and you need to ask a better question.
What will happen next, is ready to accept and forgive on what terms..... but I would advise first to talk to a family psychologist as cheating never lies in the chone of the cheater's responsibility. 50% will have to take it upon themselves.
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Good day Irina.
In your case is not a question to check or not.
It is more correct to ask whether I can accept that he is capable of cheating on me.
And of course what will happen if yes and what if no.
I would recommend to sort yourself out and find answers to these questions with a good specialist va not on the forums.
And time and nerves are saved and the probability of making a mistake will be minimal.
Especially since you will have to make fateful decisions sooner or later.
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Hello.With my husband married 20 years, after 3 years of marriage cheated the first time divorced, after half a year came back, asked for forgiveness, accepted but did not forget.After 17 years, everything repeated, a year of relationship with his mistress, she called and told everything.He said that he was not going to leave the family, that he loves me very much, and with her all of course.He 17 years working shift, I cooled off to him, and now after the cheating do not want him.Asked to start all over again.Worth trying or useless? All the time I was faithful to him and now I'm not ready for a new relationship.Spending my life to check him out I don't want to.
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Hello, an acquaintance admitted that vacationed with my husband half a night, at first they both denied the fact of infidelity, but then the acquaintance admitted that sex was, my husband claims that there were only kisses...who to believe and in general is it worth to look for the truth?
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Good day Elena, male desire does not just go away. there is always a reason and often in the woman herself.
I recommend that you do not lose resources and time for self-digging and contact a family psychologist. online or in real life does not matter.
You should develop a new strategy for seducing your husband as he at least does not see you as a seductress, but rather vego - the mother of my child and here you are stepping on his like Oedipus complex - "mother to want to not".
You shouldn't step on that callus. You should find another strategy and approach.
Unfortunately, you're doing things that confirm your mommy-ness.
Go to a specialist. Save your nerves, time and resources that you can invest in the restoration of sexual relations.
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Good afternoon, Adeline.
Sorry but yes you are wasting your time and life as while you are building this paralena reality in your and his life there are no changes. he goes on without you, you live in the past and develop it.
That's a very red flag. ESCAPING FROM REALITY.
I suggest you see a therapist.
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Hello. The problem is as follows: there was a short-term relationship with a guy I wanted for a long time and saw every day in person. I imagined him, fell asleep with thoughts about him, etc. In general, he certainly showed himself, offered to see each other, then flowed into touching. he proposed a relationship, because I said that intimacy without a relationship is not for me. The beginning of the relationship flowed in passion, harmony, understanding each other. Then already quarrels began, rather, because of me, I am irascible and do not like calm quiet relationships like him. We parted on his initiative after a couple of months, he said "feelings disappeared". I didn't realize the breakup for a month after, zero emotions. Then I was convulsing. Now I miss him, I remember the moments, but I don't go back. I'm a proud man, and he doesn't want to resume. Today I realized for myself that I am emotionally dependent on him, because I made up during the relationship what was not there (his emotions, words, love) and got the necessary high for myself. I've been living with thoughts for over half a year that we'll get back together and that's why I think about him so often. But what if it's not? What if I'm wasting my time? I'm exhausted
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Good day! I have a problem in my sexual relationship with my spouse. We live 5 years together. My husband and I are 34 years old. We have one child. Everything started after pregnancy. My husband stopped showing initiative and desire in sex. After giving birth 3 months later I started to take the initiative myself and took everything into my own hands. But every time I noticed that he didn't want to. It's like I'm forcing him to have sex. I tried to talk to him, he doesn't want to talk, but when I insist, he gets angry and starts to scandalize. On normal days we have everything good, affectionate, hugs, kisses, but as soon as it comes to sex, as if whispered away. In the last few times he can not finish the process, gets confused. Although the excitement is there. In the last conversation I asked what's wrong? He answered that he "doesn't want me and probably won't get it back." Maybe he has some kind of psychological barrier? How to fix the relationship and return the passion?
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Good afternoon Catherine.
You are a smart girl and see everything yourself and ask the right questions.
Yes, the family with him you will not have and it's not about friends and the fact that this man is not ripe to be a semyanin.
Maybe in the future and obviously not with you.
You are comfortable and when comfortable slippers to the place they put them on and when not in the theme thrown in the corner.
And of course he resents that slippers (cohabitant) can talk and have an opinion.
You don't have a problem with the relationship because it's not a relationship.
It's a symbiosis.
Find what you're addicted to in this symbiosis. Give yourself that and stop being a slipper.
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Good day Oksana.
Of course this is the end and your partner will give you "hope" to avosya everything will be fine for as long as he needs to adjust his butt in domestic issues.
I recommend not to waste time on him and put out already (if the apartment is yours) or go to another if rented.
don't forget a man is an enviable groom at any age if the stick shoots at least sometimes, but ladies.... Ladies on the marriage market get cheaper with every ovulation.
truth..... if sex with you is as passionate as it was, then there is a question of manipulation and sexual games of your partner. which means that he loves you, but he will still eat mozi and everything else.
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Good day, Mikhail. In your case, "I said the wrong thing" is relevant.
The very setting of the dialog controlling and it does not matter what was there or was not Your wife flared up precisely because she felt the controlling position and infringement of her (in her view) rights.
That's why she sent her away. I recommend not to aggravate this issue at a distance. come and talk.
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Hello I would like to understand my relationship with my wife the thing is that I went to work on a rotational method of work and before that always worked on a rotational method as if in this plan we are comfortable and my wife and I periodically call each other recently together went on vacation to the sea relaxed in the relationship communicated well and then on the fifth day of our communication after I left we called began to talk as always about everything and I went before that in vatsap before her call and saw that she was network at 03:30 at night online for the last time and I asked her why she was online so late at night and she started to react nervously and said her friends and relatives wrote to her and she went online to answer and then she said I'm not interested in discussing it and I said I'm interested in why you stayed up at night and went online, just in case something happened to someone. or something else and she started to write and after I said that I was interested to know and told her not to react so nervously to such a question in a calm tone, she sent me a message and hung up and after that she removed the time of visit in watsapp and the second day we haven't called each other yet. We have been married for 4 years and have a daughter who is 2 years and 4 months old.
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Good day!) My partner and I are going through a very difficult situation in our relationship - on the verge of a breakup. We have been together for almost 6 years, he is younger (I am 26 and he is 23), the relationship developed very rapidly, we almost immediately started living together and almost 24/7 during the whole period of the relationship were together. 2 months ago we had another fight after which we didn't talk, or rather my partner didn't want to talk, but after a while he said it was time to talk. Then he told me that during our silence he was digging into himself and realized that all his life he lived as society and environment imposed on him, and now he wants to live the way he likes and do what he wants, that relationships are not what he needs in life now and that he is not sure that he loves me at all.... I was in complete shock, but we came to a decision not to break up, but just to separate, but still continue the relationship. Immediately to move out he did not succeed and further all became only worse, he began to hide from me absolutely all spheres of his life, said that this is his personal space (although earlier for 5 years never once came up a topic about this), began to talk to me very rudely, ignore my questions, at any attempt to clarify and discuss something I heard "do not blow my mind with your nonsense" or even left the house, absolutely not interested in my life, we lived just as strangers .... I asked him several times if he wanted to continue the relationship, if it was important to him, but I only heard "I don't know/probably yes". For my part I want to keep and improve them, to start everything from 0, for me 6 years is too long to just give up, and to be honest, I'm afraid of losing him. Can you please tell me if this is a crisis or the end? Will a pause help us in this situation or is there no point?
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Relationship problems.
Gifts get thrown out, lost.
Spends a lot of time with friends and puts them above everyone else
He doesn't stand up when his friends make very sharp and hurtful jokes about me, but just stands there silent.
When we visit his friends, he silently gets up and goes somewhere and doesn't tell me to go to the table, but goes to his friends and leaves me alone.
He doesn't keep his promises. On the 7th of this month we agreed to spend the day together, in the end he was silent the whole walk or sat on the phone and then his friends called him and he went there.
On the 8th, he quietly went to a friend's house in the evening, but usually every night after 8:00 he would come over to my place.
His friends tell me that we don't recognize Petya. He used to hang out with us every day, but now you have appeared and he is not enough for us. In my understanding a man soon 30 years old should think about creating a family, children, and his friends call him every day to drink beer or hang out somewhere not realizing that there is me that not only partying he should have. They also accused me that it's my fault that he doesn't hang out with them as before every day.
He has a friend Sasha and a sister Masha, who tells him how to live and they communicate closely and often, she said to come to visit, he runs straight there. As well as Sasha himself, when Sasha calls him, he runs straight away. I don't like the way he's friends with her and that she's turning him around.
It's like me and my friends are sharing him. He's 30 years old or family or friends like I do. I'm like dating him while he's out with his friends. Not to say I'm in such a hurry to have kids, but if now he's just friends and drinking beer, what happens if there's a family?
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Good afternoon Victoria.
I will be glad to help you work through and solve these issues.
Please apply for a consultation here https://nedelkova.pro/skype-konsultaciya-psixologa or in a convenient messenger.
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Good day! There are two questions concerning family relations, I would like to work through them together with a psychologist.
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Good day
The actions will definitely help if there is no hidden variable.
I suspect there may be.
If sex with this variable has not yet been, the chances of your success is also there, but if there was and it is clearly better than the bomashnogo conjugal duty, the chances are almost none whatever you do.
Ladies tend to break any barriers and bridges for the sake of love or its illusion.
Therefore, I advise you to first prepare dinner, cake champagne and frankly calmly and gently talk - "Is there no other reason besides the fact that I'm a jerk I'm certainly a jerk, but maybe also a deer?"
And if you are only a jerk, then go to a family psychologist to develop a strategy to return love feelings (it is your wife) and within a month you her again in love with himself.
But if you're also a deer.
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Good afternoon Zulfia.
To all appearances, you have family psycho-emotional violence and tyranny in your family
I advise you to read the articles in the section "He and She" there are many answers to your questions.
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Good afternoon, Masha.
In your case there is no point in further humiliation.
If you really loved him, then for no reason would not go to any of the cheating.
If he loved you, he would have put hard conditions on further and would have accepted your apologies not allowing to humiliate.
And so.... Learn to leave before you're no longer wanted. Humiliation has never added love, trust or passion. Only pity squeamishness and ...
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Hello, married for 10 years, there is a child, a girl of 10 years. My wife half a year ago went abroad to work, I did not want to let go, but it did not affect her decision. She came three months later and somehow a little cold, and I was still angry that she left and especially did not talk.Came the second time in three months and became even colder, intimacy was not.All the time in the phone corresponds, rebuked.Well, and it began, we live in vain, 10 years lived in vain, no home, etc.The result - divorce!In the process of our life together, I did not share my feelings much, but now it came to me, I told her all this, asked for a last chance. She was very adamant, but agreed. She said, let's wait three months, until I come again, but I do not promise anything. She left, I see she is still on the phone and sits, she answers my questions in messengers not immediately and very dry.How to be, how to act in this situation, how to get her back? Will any actions and actions on my part help?
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Hello, I have this problem, we are with a guy dating 1.5 years, often quarreled, but reconciled, now we broke up through my fault, I cheated, but only morally, not physically, he said he can not forgive, how do I regain his trust?
Also he does not believe me strongly and thinks that except for correspondence with that guy I with him and walked and kissed, so sometimes even ignores me, what should I do and how to prove, please advise me, I repented for my transgression, and I am ashamed, I apologized a lot, he says that it is me imposing and begging for his forgiveness, although I just want him back and prove that I will not do this again and he is wrong.
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Hello! I have a problem with my spouse, we do not understand each other, he says that I am a spender and stupid, that I do not know how to do anything and always offended, I can not explain anything to him, he always interrupts and says his own, in the end I always remain a fucking fool!
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Good afternoon Victoria.
Judging by the described your husband has the position of the controller and tyrant in your relationship and you consequently guilty and victim.
You need to personally go to counseling to a psychotherapist and change your position and attitude/behavior and then he will also change he will not have another opportunity as in your relationship leading position you have on the victim will be only the aggressor.
And for starters, please read the articles in the section "he and she" there are several topics and recommendations in them on your issue.
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Good afternoon, Genadi.
You can't ignore it.
You both need to work on reacting and adequately expressing your emotions and needs. And here both of you are in trouble.
You should either go to a marriage counselor or read literature on assertive communication.
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Good afternoon, Anon.
WELL,,,,
everything that you describe is natural and goes just like in the textbooks on couple relationships.
In your case both need to realize that the first partner (if the relationship was plus0 as a rule the standard and all others will be a comparative shadow.
2- Passion lives 2,5-3 years further need to work to preserve love and its transition to a new round. -YOU DIDN'T WORK. That's why you got this result.
And now I strongly recommend to put the pride of the male and "how could she" in the same place where to put her "I'll do anything but forgive".
And go to counseling together. It'll be more effective than all the rest of this mess.
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Hello!
The situation is as follows, my wife has a temper, very often from her side anger and insults in my direction, after which I am tired of listening to this and from my side begin to manhandling (not hitting, but just raise my hand supposedly now hit her, let's say so frighten).
This is the second time in 3 years of living together, before that I just packed my things and left the house, but still insults and humiliation in my direction were. From her side is such anger that it is very difficult to restrain myself without showing that I now want to hit her (frighten, I talked about it above), her words hurt me very much, I do not know how to be, I still love her, I love the common child, but to live with anger is getting harder, to give up everything and leave I can not.
How do I deal with it, specifically by not paying attention to her anger, insults and other nasty things about me?
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I am in a relationship with a girl for 4 years, literally from 3 months of relationship and until now we lived together, that is, life without this person I can not imagine already. About a year ago we began to have problems in the relationship, I did not keep promises, she too, constant distrust in small things, constant quarrels, rudeness, we wanted to break up more than once since the beginning of this year and now I'm not even sure that I love her, although 3 years she was for me, it seems, the universe, I realize that I will never find such a one, and she says the same about me. This is a first for us both sexually and in principle. And because of all these fights, on my initiative I wanted to take a break. We discussed before we left the terms that sex with others is allowed, but you can't look for a replacement for the relationship. We discussed the fact that we need to think about the relationship, what's wrong, find the root of the problem because of what made everything go down one place. And for me it's more like not a pause, but just a vacation, a break from the relationship and basically this pause was useless. And for her it was like a breakup because, according to her, I acted like I didn't care about her and she expected me to break up with her, thinking it was better for me. So I realized during this pause that I wanted to get back together, I missed her a lot, I was waiting for us to finally meet and I could hug her, but when we finally meet I find out that she slept with an acquaintance drunk, that it didn't mean anything to her, that she will never see him again and that because of this she has concluded that no one but me is needed, that she wants to be only with me, says that she feels a huge guilt and is ready to do anything for the sake of correction, that she has never had sexual relations with anyone but me and the chance of cheating in the future drops from 5% to 0.5%. When I thought about texting someone on the first day to hook up but thought why would I want to do that, I want to build a relationship, then she meets an acquaintance at the store and sleeps with him afterwards ;) I can see how sorry she is for what she did and I really want to be with her, I can see how willing she is, how she tries to fix it, but I can't even look at her, let alone be intimate with her. She has given access to all her social media, deleted all her boyfriends, stopped communicating with everyone to make me feel better. I realize that we were in a pause and "can" was discussed, but it shows her as a person, that if anything, she's in all sorts of trouble. It also really plays into the fact that in 4 years with me she has never had an orgasm, but with him she did. But how can I trust her in the future? How do I treat her? How do I not get angry? How do I look at her, touch her? I can see how sorry she is, how she's trying to fix herself and help me, but I can't stop being angry. Constant desire to punish her sexually, but I don't want to hurt her because I love her. Can you tell me how to save the relationship? What should I or she do to regain trust. What to do next, because I and want to be with her, but I do not know how can after such a... Thank you
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Hello, my husband and I have been together for 3.5 years. He has nagging , then not so I clean , then it is necessary to do it often . Himself as cleaning grumbles and grumbles . He does not like to do it ( his mother nagged him all his life as was cleaning ) Wash dishes need to put the plates evenly , my husband's mood can constantly change a day and I do not know how to please in this case . He is nice and kind, then he is not so ( it's for 5 minutes ) He is a psychologist by education, works as a welder . As soon as he verbally offends me I want to leave the house, he always says that I am tender and want to run away from the relationship as soon as anything . He doesn't like what clothes I want to buy. He chooses what suits me. He can't be pleased with anything I give him, especially clothes ( only the choice is always with him ) .
My husband works hard and always talks about it, but he does not want to change his profession. Although he doesn't like it. I have a dad ( mumbled ) he is no longer alive and I constantly like - something buzzes . I myself am sociable cheerful , but became now more hysterical ( crying ) as soon as he makes a remark to me and he makes a remark every day or on weekends . Then I cry and after a while he wants intimacy, he likes to make me hysterical. And then he says you're so upset. It's like this every weekend.
When we travel, everything is fine, no quarrels. But at home, he has something wrong. He may apologize at the end, but then he says. It's your fault, you're getting yourself worked up. I'd appreciate an answer.
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Good day Eugenia.
Perhaps you should think about what you want from the "family" and find your image of happiness and then ask yourself the question whether infantile maminkin son can give you all this.
If the answer is three letters, it's time to realize you can't fish in this swamp.
Plus there is such a recommendation for all people that are going to get married to go to the house of the future suprege and look at the relationship of mom - sin, dad - daughter.
And if so very strong love is fine but do not get married (good future in this marriage do not expect).
Look at the relationship between parents and see what kind of relationship will be with this husband in 20 years. you may not have paid attention to this. so you have an underage boy who plays dancers and calls his mom when he is offended by "that one".
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Hello. We have problems in our family, my husband is completely immersed in computer games, namely in tanks. He does not help me in household chores, and he does not want to play and study with my son. There is no joy in our family. And if I reprimand him, he calls his mom and complains to her. His mom is always interfering in our family. She's always defending him, and I'm the bad one.
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Good afternoon Anna
Please go to the section "Family Matters" and "him and her" and read there all the articles about emotional tyranny, abusive behavior and so on. If you don't recognize your boyfriend in them it makes sense to go to a marriage counselor. If you do recognize him, it makes sense to get out of this relationship until there are no binding factors between you other than time and feelings.
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Good day, Sergei I will be glad to help you. please write in a special form to sign up for a consultation with a family psychologist
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Afternoon interested in a consultation with a marriage counselor for a couple, soon online on weekends from 1230-1500 time may vary depending on the children's sleep.
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Hello, I've been living with a young man for 3 years.
Lately we fight every day, tantrums, shouting, insults, almost hatred.... The guy can not contain himself, says that I am a trigger for him, yells for every little thing, calls me names.
We've tried to change a lot of times, but it doesn't work, is there a chance for this relationship?
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Good afternoon, Diana.
First of all, a psychologist does not interpret dreams and does not predict their meaning as your psychologist did. As dreams often have an individual and personal context. Rather, the psychologist's job is to help the client explore their feelings and reactions in the context of their own experience.
In this situation, the psychologist can work to identify the basis of mistrust and behavioral patterns in the relationship, and help the client better understand his or her emotions and needs. It's important to address interpersonal issues by bringing up important topics and creating space for frank discussion.
Your grief counselor has opened a non-existent "window of dislike" for you.
I am more inclined to the fact that your boyfriend sincerely npoponimayutsya your claims and you with him have a rather different vision of "We"
Secondly you should pay attention to your relationship and establish this very common We. It will help or a really good psychologist or your joint semipotnye labor in establishing openness and mutual care.
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And what's bothering you more? The fact that you feel the urge to tell him or resentment for him for being horny?
If you really want to help him, figure out why.
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Hello!
Your feelings and concerns are understandable, and it is important that your relationship is based on openness and mutual understanding. Let's take a look at what is needed
Openness and trust:
Talk to your young man about what openness in the relationship and mutual trust is important to you. Try to find out exactly what he considers his privacy and why it is important for him to have his own space.
A conversation about boundaries:
Discuss together what boundaries and personal spaces are important to each of you. Try to agree on how each partner's personal space can be respected while maintaining mutual trust.
The past and trust:
If you have had trust issues in the past, discuss them openly. Emphasize how important it is for you to build a relationship based on mutual respect and honesty.
Shared values:
Discuss what values and expectations you both have about privacy and openness. Finding compromise and shared understanding can help strengthen the relationship.
Relationships require openness, understanding, and respect for your partner's personal boundaries. If, after going through the dust-up, the concerns remain, it is advisable to see a marriage counselor for additional support and help in dealing with the situation. Online or real does not matter.
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Good afternoon, Liana.
I would venture to call your husband not just an emotional egoist but a tyrannical dictator.
Go to the section family affairs and read about them and what to do.
P.S. and your daughter should help her to marry quickly and successfully, even for a Georgian or an Armenian, but for someone who loves her, respects and values her at least as herself.
Unfortunately, that's not what your relationship with your husband is about. Support your daughter.
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Good afternoon, Roman.
Go to anger therapy.
On your own you will not cope with it (will interfere with this very temper).
And of course it's worth learning that the best way to apologize is not to get into a situation where you need it.
I will be happy to work with your anger when you decide to contact me.
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Good afternoon, Dimitri.
This is a question to which every husband must find the answer within himself.
Any advice from outside "a stone on the neck of a drowning man".
There is an effective methodology "Decision Square". Using it a man is able to make correct and effective decisions of any complexity.
I can help you to master it and this is the only adequate help you need. Again, only you should make the decisions and ideally without advice.
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Should you forgive your wife's cheating and try to keep the family together?
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Good afternoon Alice
Unfortunately now men are increasingly avoiding intimate relationships or go into denial.
And in order to understand the reasons for your initial information is very little.
I strongly advise you to first understand the root causes and if it is physiology to step on the throat of their feelings and leave. In other cases (and whatt me suggests that this is one of them) all can be fixed with the help of a good sexologist, psychoanalyst and of course your caring understanding and participation.
You can break up now, of course, but you will spend the rest of your life looking back with the thought, "Maybe..."
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Good afternoon.
There are relationship problems. Acquaintances for 7 months were just like friends. A month ago just became intimate and that was one night. Partner hardly goes for intimate contact and for some reason distances himself from the intimate subject, although one night we were together everything was fine. Has been living alone for a long time. For me it is very important, as temperament and age take their toll. And here it turns out that we do not agree. I love him very much, but I can't do it anymore. He treats me with care, warmth, but.... that's it. Like a child. It's hard to break off the relationship, but it's also unbearable to be in it.
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Hello.
I ask for your advice on how to work through the outbursts of anger and not to bring ( in the quarrel)!!!!
I've been with my wife for eight years. I love her madly, but when we start fighting with her, I'm just like a substitute. I start arguing with her as if we were not even related, close people to each other!
I'm very forgiving by nature, a fight, five minutes and I'm cool. I apologize.
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Hello. I have this problem my husband used to be an emotional person. But with age he became unbearable. When he was young he did not pay attention to the family, he was not to the family, you can say lived for himself. Now the children are grown up and he wants, as before, that everyone obeyed him and did what he liked. My daughter is 22 years old and she started to meet a guy who is not of our nationality: we are Armenians, and the guy who meets with my daughter is Georgian, and against this background we have scandals at home, yelling, screaming. And the last thing he decided that if she does not hear him he writes our daughter out of our apartment and says that I refuse her. And he'll do it. Now it's my parents' turn because she's got their support. I don't know how to deal with him. He blames me for all my sins.
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Hello, my boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year, we live together for half a year, at the moment we live with our parents and we are looking for an apartment, and he says that in the new apartment he will lock himself when he does something in the computer and put a password on the computer, he says that he has his own private life, which does not concern me, and I think only about one thing that he will watch pornography there and not only watch, because at the beginning of the relationship I saw a lot of such things in his search history, it was very unpleasant, I thought we should end it with him, he said h
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Hello, they say that at our age relationship is not serious and stupid, but I would like to understand.Half a year together with a guy.The other day had a dream about snakes, a familiar psychologist said that it is to betray a loved one.Here is a guy to me in the evening announces that he wrote a girl with whom he communicated a few years ago and spent a lot of money on her on resources in the game.He knew very well that I was uncomfortable about the situation, at the same time that she wrote to him, he told me only after two hours.Skept the end of the correspondence, for the beginning deleted tk afraid of my reaction.I was confused by many moments of correspondence, it seemed that he was nice to her, also I, paying attention to the fact when he replied to her and me, considered that he ignored me, communicating and actively writing to her.He himself says that he loves me and generally does not understand what happened that evening. My trust is exhausted and I look at him with the wrong eyes. How to resolve this situation and what decision to make?
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Brother's cheating on his wife. She doesn't know. I do.