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Hi. Guest.
You have an oedipal complex all boys go through but at an earlier age. You're a little late for it.
Confess? No!
Read about it and deal with this complex. So google to help))))
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Good afternoon, Victoria. It's not a sad situation, it's a natural one.
You have a block that prevents you from having orgasms.
You have a block, you don't orgasm. That's the pattern.
You need to find out what's holding back your orgasm and suppressing your libido.
Ideally and work through it. You need to talk to a sexologist one-on-one.
You can write to me or see another specialist.
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Hello, I have a very sad situation. I don't understand why I can't cum, I've never felt this feeling before. How to achieve results? What to do? Not from the cunny, not from fingers, not from the partner's organ does not depend on anything, it just does not work. I don't like to caress myself. I'm only 21 years old.
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Hi I'm 19 years old and here's the thing, I really like my mom, sometimes even masturbate on her peeping when she changes clothes .I do not know if this is normal or not and how do I be, I'm still a virgin ... can I admit it?
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Good afternoon, Victor.
As long as a man is a virgin, he is potentially bisexual, so in your case, go to the field.
Only after any sexual experience with a living being you will either decide yourself or a specialist can help you with it.
Everything else is just soap bubbles.
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Hello! I can't figure out what my sexual constitution is. I masturbate 2+ times a day, it seems like every day. I am 43 years old (male). But I have never lived with a woman (with a man too :-), i.e. I have never had regular sex. How exactly on these input data to determine your sexual constitution? It is interesting to know - perhaps for the future, suddenly or will have to or want to live with someone - and I would like to know more precisely my sexual constitution (measurement of legs, etc. I do not consider yet, just what I described above is interesting).
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Prolonged intercourse, or a series of intercourse at short intervals, (for example, for an hour), can lead to priapism?
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Good afternoon, Darina.
No, you don't appear to be a prostitute.
It turns out that you have sadomasahistic tendencies and most likely you have sexual deviation that requires dominance over you.
Yes, the rape trauma should be worked out and you shouldn't look for rapists in back alleys in the future.
But - no now it is not even considered a perversion but a sexual deviation and you have enough male "masters" on you.
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Good afternoon, Nicholas.
In your case number 2 - it is not a fact that you are a latent homosexual, although there is such a possibility. More often unrealized libido and low self-esteem of your physical abilities and resources of attractiveness manifests itself in this way. And high level of male estradiol (yes yes you have it too))))).
1- I do not recommend any chemical ways to reduce libido.
However, there is a more effective way
drink adaptogens and go to the gym on a powerlifter regimen. I explain Adaptogen ashwaganda will lower stress levels and sootvetvetvenno heavy testosterone and strength 3 4 5 times a week will increase the release of the miracle hormone Aromaza (google it) Which in turn processes estrodiol in tazhchin in volatile testosterone and the second gives self-confidence strength and drive to life much more.
If you add lycithin and a short psychotherapy with a professional exestential psychotherapist, you will forget about this problem forever.
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Hello. Is it possible to enjoy being raped? I was raped and I enjoyed the pain, the humiliation. Am I a prostitute?
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Hello. I'm a guy, I'm 21.5 years old. I have not had sexual relations. From the age of 10 to 20 years old I masturbated and watched pornography, at the moment it's been 10 months since I quit.
1. I have a strong sex drive for natural reasons, which interferes with my daily life. Due to my beliefs, I refrain from sexual intercourse before marriage, and masturbation is also unacceptable. Since I am not likely to get married in the next few years, I am wondering: is it possible to reduce my sex drive (possibly medically)? Provided that the measures taken do not negatively affect my health.
2. I am attracted to my own sex, the sight of women does not arouse special feelings. I consider it unacceptable and would like to correct it. What is the attraction? -Basically, I am aroused by the sight of handsome guys in the subway, on the street, just in advertising, etc., I involuntarily pay attention to them and their organs. I am mentally and intuitively attracted to other men's genitals. I find it unacceptable. I do not get to anyone, especially to someone's genitals, I try not to look at people (i.e. experiencing sexual attraction) neither to women, much less to men. But I'm still attracted. And in essence, it all boils down to the need to reduce libido.
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Good afternoon Anastasia, the causes of the problem in this case are many. I can't give you an answer now, but I can offer you sexological counseling and we will be able to sort it out on it
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Good afternoon Guest.
There are 3 options here
Either hidden resentment distrust of women (based on the relationship with his ex-wife)
Or fallen sexual self-esteem.
Or because of bolgogo absutstviya sex (if not and masturbation) prostate gives failure and plus mutations of sperm that often happens with male abstinence.
The third reason is the easiest to remove. It's necessary to anonize qualitatively for two or three weeks.
If it doesn't work, it makes sense to consult a sexologist.
A couple of consultations and you will solve this problem in your head.
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Hello.I have a problem that I broke up with my wife and has not had sexual relations for six months.now I found a girl and when it comes to sexual intimacy, he falls.or nerves or I do not know what.when I lived with my wife there seemed to be no problems.but time has passed and so it happened.tell me what to do.
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Good afternoon, Anna.
Perhaps it is a problem of mistrust in partners or under-experienced grief of loss.
You should either be patient and try to build an emotionally trusting relationship with a man or go to therapy with a sexologist.
It is better online (more effective).
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Good afternoon Angelica.
XM.... but when you tear your knee how quickly can you get back on it without pain?
That's right. You need a break for the wound to heal.
It's the same with the hymen. You have micro tears, cracks, etc. that need to heal. The healing time is very individual, as well as the structure, shape, and location of the hymen. A break of 5-10 days is usually recommended.
And now.... Not surprisingly, any contact of the traumatized area is like the contact of a torn knee with an emery board.
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Good afternoon Eugenia
To date, there is no clear age limit of interest in sexual question and its realization.
In my practice a lot of debuts in 7-8 years. so sooner or later is not a question.
I would put the question differently. How many hobbies, interests your daughter has from the outside overshadowing the issue of knowledge of this sphere?
As a rule, the more busy a child is with the interests that develop it is interesting and madly like it, the more timely he connects to the topic of intimacy or at all a little late.
So what is your daughter's priority over the vibrator? And what she spends her "all the time" on.
PS. Don't get hysterical. It'll just make it worse.
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Hi, I found my daughter (14 years old) has a vibrator, small, I do not know if this is normal, should I throw tantrums? I'm worried not to ruin the relationship with her somehow. is it normal that a teenager at this age is interested in such things?
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Hello.I am 18 and since recently I am no longer a virgin.the first time was very painful, inside it felt like the penis was too wide, although it is quite normal.the first couple of minutes were hell, then kind of normal.after half an hour again had sexual intercourse and again at first painful, then more or less.then the next day we repeated again.and again, as soon as it enters - pain, as if torn from the inside and the feeling that it does not fit.The vagina was quite wet, just flowing.All the p/c was with a condom.The young man was tight the first time, but then it was fine.I wondered how long it would hurt, because today is the second day, and when he entered, the pain was as if for the first time.I realize that this is only the first time, but I have a feeling (and fear) that I will never cum.Even with clitoral stimulation I can't, although I have a trusting relationship with my partner and everything is good.Before that I had orgasms when watching porn and masturbation, and once I even cum from a guy's hands, but then with many attempts it didn't come out, even when I was very excited.I also tried cunnilingus, 0 sensations.maybe it's me? I was not afraid before the first time, on the contrary, I was ready.but at the moment I'm worried about the pain, because of it I can't concentrate.maybe I should take a break? or on the contrary have sex to stretch everything there? I just tried it with my finger, I feel pain when I press on the walls of the vagina inside.what to do, tell me?
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Hello! I have a problem of not getting orgasm.With my husband lived 30 years, loved him very much, and everything in sex was good.After his death 2 years have passed, for the last year there were 5 partners, never had an orgasm, only with a vibrator turns out.How to be?
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Hello, there was such a problem, quite a long time ago. My partner and I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years, after six months to a year of relationship, he stopped feeling anything during classical sex, earlier it still happened that he could come during classical sex, now he doesn't, he says that there are not enough sensations, he doesn't feel the vaginal walls. Can you tell me what the problem might be?
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Good afternoon.
You should not focus on quitting porn.
It is better to fixate on sports and the ability to establish relationships with the opposite sex, both mental and intimate. You have a problem with that.
Perhaps go to a psychologist with this request or on courses, trainings. in general, dig in this direction, and the issue of porn is likely to fall away when there is a living flesh with feelings, emotions, language, soul ... with which you can do a lot of things besides friction.
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Good afternoon.
Your wife apparently has no orgasm with you.
So sex is an inefficient waste of time for her, and.... compulsory.
So you need to work not only on the relationship but also on your wife's orgasm.
Because a woman who has an orgasm wants one, so she's more cooperative with a partner who gives it to her.
All women who have orgasms have sex with pleasure and regularly. The rest of us have sex irregularly and constantly look for reasons to avoid it.
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Good afternoon, Vitaly.
It's called your fetish.
It's not a deviant fetish.
And that means you need to work on your wife's attitude to this her stiffness and inability to get a true high from this peculiarity of yours.
Go to a sexologist together. The solution to this issue is 1 or maximum 2 consultations.
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Hello! I will try to briefly describe the problem. Married, married to my spouse for 15 years, she is a good person in everything, but I have to beg for sex and it lasts for about 10 years. Months ago there was a major quarrel, which could lead to divorce, but I brought to the conversation. I explained that I lack care, attention and intimacy, and that I do not agree to live as a neighbor. She deduced her arguments that I engaged myself and quit drinking (to alcohol addicted just because of this, so it was easier not to pay attention and suppress the attraction). So, it's been 2 months, I do not drink, pay attention to her, children, help in household chores, but she does not change. I feel that she does not need sex, if I keep silent, it may never be. Am I deeply mistaken and wasted so many years living as an unhappy person, how can I be?
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Hello I have such a problem, if you are a specialist sexologist, then I turn to you, frequent some kind of craving for sex, and can not quit porn and masturbation, but the desire is all this to quit, but some kind of strong craving, I want to have a relationship with girls, but here too something that does not work out, time is not enough, most of the time is spent on the Internet, and I don't know how to approach a girl to get acquainted, what to say, there is anxiety after communicating with girls, I'll tell you openly before actually had nothing to do with girls, I'm tired of it, I think I'll give up these things, but again it happens, or something prevents me from having a relationship with the female sex, especially this time, tell me how can I give up masturbation and porn? After that I feel bad all day long, I don't get enough sleep, I'm tired, I'm in a state of inattention, I'm not paying attention, I'm confused, I can't work properly after this state, it's like irritability in my body.
And it's kind of weird that I still don't have a girlfriend. My full life.
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Good afternoon. You can't suggest group sex right now.
Start by fixing what's wrong.
If sex has become more infrequent there must be a reason for it. Look, perhaps you have become more lazy))) perhaps she is tired of faking)) perhaps passion or romance gone and everyday life kills desire, perhaps weight, teeth.... but!!!! first get sparks from eyes and her adoration of you and sex with you and then you can think about other offers.
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Good day. I have been married for 13 years, my wife is 1 year older than me, she has a son from my first marriage. For the first 8 years of our life we had a great intimate relationship, then sex started to be very rare. As time went on I developed a huge desire to try group sex with my wife and another man. This desire has been overpowering me for more than a year, but I do not know how to propose to my wife, I am afraid that she will not understand correctly. Can you please tell me what I should do?
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Hello my name is Vitaly I am 46 years old I am attracted to women's feet, namely to his wife she sometimes allows me to kiss her feet, please tell me this is a deviation or normal? And how can I get rid of it? I myself tried to suppress this desire, but it only increases. I do not interfere with it, but very uncomfortable in front of my wife, she says that it is not normal.
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Good afternoon, Alexei.
This is the effect of novelty and unsteady. immature your sexuality.
It will pass within a few months, unless you fix it by having sex with a lady of great age (which I strongly advise you not to do).
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I am 19 years old accidentally saw my friend having sex with his mother from this I got a hard-on and started masturbating and cumming and now I started to like women of his mom's age and some of them just get a hard-on what is it?
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Dear Olga. My husband is 20 years older than me. There is no intimate life with him for about 7 years. I have problems with communication at work - I've changed 3 teams in 3 years. Isn't that my job? Should I get a lover? Go to a pussy doctor?
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Good day Vitya.
Visit a urologist and then a sexologist and a phlebologist (and if you masturbate, it is worth reducing the amount of masturbation).
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Good afternoon, Eduard.
Magic drops relieve the symptoms (and not forever) but do not solve the problems
I recommend to go to a urologist to check for hidden sluggish diseases (many of them give such consequences).
And if everything is OK or after treatment go to a sexologist. You can of course go straight to a sexologist, but a good specialist will send you to a urologist first.
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Sex is not enjoyable, blowjob does not feel, even sometimes painful, I cum after an hour or more
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Good day.
Options for this situation is very many n if you are tired of it go to a consultation with a female psychologist and with her remove what repels you girls or acquire that they are attracted.
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But he doesn't want to solve this problem, he doesn't want to go anywhere, he says that he does it because of depression, and I'm making a tragedy out of it.at the same time, we rarely have sex, he says that he needs a couple of days to download the next time.I think we agreed that he won't do it anymore, but I'm not sure about it, especially now I'm away from him.
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Good afternoon, Alena. Yes, it's a small thing.
No worry not in vain))))))
Your man lacks something and it is not that he himself knows what. Maybe you should go to a sexologist and whisper with him? Often helps in cases like this
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Please make an appointment with our sexologist and solve this problem.
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Hello I'm 16 I started it October I was anonymous, 3 times on 3 times I had a headache was not much desire and when I cum orgasm was not there, I did not panic and decided to start the next day but nothing changed the desire or immediately or over time became horny, I lost spontaneous erections at night but not always, I lost sensitivity of the penis and almost no sensation of the head before everything was fine now it's not, also semen stopped shooting and only flows out and it's very hard to cum maybe it's with my head or maybe it's in my penis, I've been obsessing for a year before I always wanted to and always anonymous, I want to get back the desire and sensitivity, tell me what it is and maybe recommend the number of a sexologist thank you I'd appreciate it.
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Hello, I have a problem vomshem she has been so for 16 years.when I have with a girl came to the pastel then at the right moment my boyfriend just does not react.then after that after an hour everything is okay.but also very quickly end.how to fix it.well for me it is a disadvantage ... and vazbuditelnye drops for women and men you advise or not....
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Hello.I moved in with a man who wanted me very much, to whom I am dear and valuable.A couple of days after that I caught him in the bathroom watching porn and this case, of course.and this is during the week for the second time.I was very shocked, as a woman I do not like it, it means that I am imperfect for him.When I talked to him about it, he referred to the fact that now there are problems and so he unloads, that sex is not important at all, that I should be upset about it, there are more important things and now it is silly to think about it.I am dear and valuable to him, and this is nonsense in general.And in general it is his personal, why do I meddle in it.But I do not give peace to this situation, and he gets angry and does not understand me, not what I think about, he says, it is just a trifle.Tell me, is it so? Am I worried for nothing? And why does he do it?
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Hello, I have a very bad problem, and it concerns the life of a man, it is strange, I am 29 years old, and I still have no girls, I see that for some reason in my environment, for example at work, there are many beautiful girls, and for half a year working there, they are not interested in me, that is communication, dating, and from the other side to look at here is suspicious, but with other guys they communicate,have fun, and it is obvious that by their looks, they turn away from me, it can be seen everywhere, even elementary acquainted on the Internet, the same thing turn away refuse to get acquainted, it is unclear, and I want to ask you a question as a specialist, then how and where should I look for a girl or a dream partner, in a word, no way, all refuse, and so I will live all my life in loneliness?I mean without a wife, without a family?
I am surprised, like the desire is to find a girl, to have a marriage, to create a family, but they refuse, I do not understand what is the essence of the problem, tell me it is solvable?
It seems with appearance all in order, with clothes also all in the norm, average dressed, to be honest I'm tired of living like this, alone and a virgin.
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Good afternoon.
If it is acceptable to both - then yes, it can be considered normal.
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Hello, tell me - a man in the ass with a strapon, is it normal?
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Good afternoon, Dimitri.
It's important to understand whether it's you or you.
If you are one of the options to give your wife starpon, etc. and try to bring variety in family sex.
If you, then there is no way to do without a sexologist and long psychotherapeutic work.
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Good afternoon,
You should not quit your habits, but see a psychotherapist or a neurologist.
The problem is probably deeper than habits and slowness.
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Hello, I have a very big problem, for my 28 years I have never had a girl, for some reason I am slow in life, for some reason I can not find time for it, for girls, but I am always busy with something, work, hobbies, the Internet, and something prevents me from getting acquainted,stiffness, excitement, there is also a bad situation, I can not quit masturbation, and for some reason it often leads to sex, and for some reason after masturbation, I feel like fatigue, lack of sleep in the body, loss of energy, and sometimes a ringing noise in the head.
How can I quit this habit??? But I can't, even though I try, is there any other way to quit?
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Hello! 3 years ago I had my first sex with an older man, since then I have been interested in sex with the male sex. Realizing that this is wrong, I do not know how to proceed, my wife has no idea about it. To date I have had 34 sexual partners. Can you please tell me how I can get out of this situation, what specialist should I consult?