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Good afternoon, Olga.
Your situation isn't complicated, it's just painful.
And here's the thing.
Both you and your partner are unfortunately not capable of adequate dialog, empathy and mutual respect.
You both were not taught this and by the way you chose a partner who is ready to yell at you and so on because you were looking for it because of your childhood traumas and attitudes.
You can either tolerate it or get a divorce.
Both options are not ace and extreme but-there is a third..... Apologize to each other and go to a marriage counselor. If he does not want to go yourself.
Once you fix your 50 percent contribution to this hell, the partner will get involved
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Hello, I have a difficult ... I often answer very glibly, without respect and nervously because of my character. I do not notice it because I had in my childhood the same thing, I was so communicated with me and I think it is normal (maybe because of this I do not notice). Because of this I have a difficult relationship with my partner. When I don't answer well he yells at me and then I realize that I said something wrong and I feel guilty. I feel like a gray cloud is descending over my head and the lower it goes the worse I feel. I feel very depressed and apathetic. I don't want to brush my teeth, wash, nothing. If it weren't for my daughter, I'd kill myself. I won't do it just because of her. It makes it even harder to live. What do I do? My partner says he doesn't feel sorry for me when I cry, because he feels bad too and it's my fault. I understand that.
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Good day Magomed.
You should be examined by a psychotherapist and an endocrinologist
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Good afternoon, Nina.
No.
From what you've described, you're not suicidal.
And you probably don't have a BAR either. BUT!
You have postcoronavirus complications that should have been properly managed and treated.
Apparently it hasn't been done and I hope you haven't been put on "appropriate medications" yet.
I strongly recommend that you find a good psychotherapist in real life (or come to me online), ideally working with endocrinology.
Go to him/her for a proper examination and, of course, the treatment that will be required.
It is usually drug-free and will work (depending on the root cause) within 2-10 months.
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Hello, I am 40, after the coronovirus I started having mental problems, I am diagnosed with BAR. During the corona for the first time there was depression and suicidal images, but I was afraid of them and so to speak chased them away. Then it happened a couple more times and I kind of put a block on it, that I have to live my life for another 10 years to raise my kids, and then let it be. In fact, I don't want to do anything with myself, but when I feel sad, my brain suggests it to me, and I'm afraid I won't be able to cope with these suggestions. For half a year, I lived happily ever after. The other day hypomania or psychosis happened. I didn't have any suicidal thoughts at all, but I searched so actively on the internet for help/trust numbers. Saved a few pages where I can turn to in an emergency, and then I came to your page. I can't understand what is happening to me, whether I am suicidal or not. And how to get rid of it once and for all.
Thank you in advance for your reply.
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Hello, how can I overcome my fear of speech like stuttering?
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Good afternoon Elena.
You should enroll in therapy with an exestonal psychologist or go to support groups.
And yes, it's time to turn the page on your husband and his tyrannical attitude.
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Hello, I am 50 years old, 20 years lived with my husband, I think psychopath. There were normal periods, and then on any occasion outbreaks of uncontrolled aggression, he beat and smashed everything. Although with strangers he is friendly. Now because of the war in another country. His depressive moods and aggression have intensified. He takes all his problems out on me. I tried to help him, he cohoashashashavat, but everything repeats.I have constant anxiety anxiety and fear of loneliness.I can not live and work.After the last outbreak, I do not leave the room, avoid people.I am ashamed to look at the neighbors. My daughter tells me to pull myself together and move on.I can't. How can I get out of this state and start living?
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Good afternoon, Irina.
Go for a consultation with me or any other suicidologist and it is desirable to find one who understands hormonal issues.
Since your root cause is probably there.
There's no point in wasting money and time on a psychiatrist and a psychologist like taking zoloft.
Apparently not your drug and not your specialists.
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Hello. My daughter is 14 years old and diagnosed with depression. We take zoloft. 4 months, working with psychologist and psychiatrist. In her diary, she says she's going to kill herself. She wrote the date of her death. It's ongoing and started 2 years ago. Panic attacks. What to do. The psychologist has no training as a suicidologist.
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Good afternoon, Misha.
The basis of this problem lies in your relationship with your mother.
Pay attention to this and go for psychologically corrective counseling about it.
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Hello, I'm 19 years old. My problem is that I have difficulties in communication with women. When I start a new communication in person I feel as if I have nothing to say, I just do not know what to talk about, even if the interlocutor shows more active in communication. But on the Internet I can communicate calmly.
And also constantly on the street I think that I am not walking like that, that everyone is looking at me, and I think a lot that others think about me, give some advice please, maybe to someone to turn to, or to drink antidepressants.
There were never any suicidal thoughts.
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Good afternoon Maxim.
Unfortunately, I don't know your age, but I assume you're quite young.
And if so, you need a clinical psychologist and a suicidologist.
Plus there's a possibility of hormonal disorder. Some of the symptoms you're describing - plus you may have acute chondrosis.
If you can't see a specialist, start by reading related psychological and medical books. It's a longer and less effective process, but it's worth it.
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I find it hard to communicate with people, can't make eye contact, anxiety in public places, stuttering, shortness of breath, feeling empty, wanting to disappear, trouble sleeping, I feel tired all the time, it's very hard to do anything, I started to neglect my health and personal hygiene, I can not eat and then uncontrollably eat everything, I feel that I am nothing, I am disgusted with myself, I tried to commit suicide but did not have the courage, I am pathetic, everything I once loved is now indifferent, I can stare at the ceiling for hours, mood swings and irritability, if I get angry I hit myself on the head, legs, bite my lips, tongue, pull my hair out, pinch myself, I often twitch just for fun, I sit there and my body shakes and my head tilts to the side, I can't control it, problems in the family, my parents hate me, I tried to do my best, but they only drank and blamed me for everything, beat me, I am very hard and turn to a specialist is not possible, I suspect I have a psyche is not all right, but I will not say I am not a psychologist or psychiatrist, I hope you will help me at least something, thank you in advance.
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Good day, Alik.
You most likely have a set of traumas that stretch from deep (and not so deep) childhood and they directly affect the interaction with the outside world and people. And also a crisis of trust in society and its representatives (this is a skewed interaction with your mother in your childhood).
And here the problem is not in you or pain and fear or distrust of people.
It's about the growth and expansion of the impact of these traumas on you and your life.
You may not like what I have to say but! Your fatigue with life, the development of fear and suicidal attempts are predictable and go as they should according to the development plan of your scenario. It's just gonna get worse. And there are only !,5 (and no less) people who can change this scenario ...
The 1st person is you.
05 is the therapist you decide to see.
so make the right decision and then find a good professional and sign up for psychotherapy. But choose very carefully. Your life and its success depends on the professionalism of the psychotherapist (not psychologist). in every sense.
ps. Here on the site, please read the difference between these specialists. The difference between the types of counseling.
I personally think that taking into account everything you will be more comfortable and effective counseling online.
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Good afternoon. I have never talked to a psychologist and I don't know how it happens, but I think it's worth starting with a description of the problem. I am afraid to live, I am afraid of people and probably people are the main problem. It's hard for me to get in contact with people and so if I have the slightest chance to do something on my own, I will do it alone. I am afraid to stand up for myself although I am not a weak person, I do sports and am physically strong. It makes it very difficult for me to live. I'm afraid to go to the store, to get acquainted, to solve problems and to travel. And I am so tired of it that there was a suicide attempt, but I was saved. I'm afraid to live even though I don't see any sense in life. I don't understand why I should live and be afraid of it.
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Good day. Zhanat
Yes I do.
The cost depends on the issues. please apply for an online consultation and I will be able to suggest a price in a convenient currency for you
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No way.
Read reviews, articles, biographies and go to the specialist who is more trustworthy. You can read here on my website articles on how to choose a specialist.
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Hi. I was wondering if you work as a CPT therapist and how much you charge.
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Son is 19 years old and has been cutting himself in the foot from past situations in his life. He says he is in a prolonged depression and needs a specialist. I don't really trust psychologists as there are a lot of charlatans out there who just want to take money. How can I make sure that your help will be real?
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Afternoon
A person is born to be happy.
This means that if the name prevents you from being a happy person and its change will definitely make you happier, there is no dilemma and can not be.
Parents if they really love you will love you with any name and if their love is attached only to resentment that you did not appreciate as they would like their preference and choice of name for their child..... Well it is their choice and it has nothing to do with you. But !!! is obliged to influence your conclusions about their attitude to you personally.
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Hello. I decided to change my name, but I started to fight with my parents (although we never lived peacefully, but it got worse). I've already decided on a name, studied everything about it and just realized that this is it... the name I need. It's exactly like me. With my current name, I'm having internal conflicts... depressions, and I get tossed around when people call me by it. And I have a dilemma. Stay Tanya and leave everything as it is or change my name to Lily and be a little happier. It's just that it's getting to the point where I'm crying. I even think about suicide... often.
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Good day Inna.
I strongly recommend you to consult a normal specialist, not an amateur or a specialist of the post-soviet (as I think you were treated by one of them).
What you are describing is a consequence of inadequate treatment and incorrect diagnoses with side effects of "not your drugs".
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Good afternoon, I apologize for writing here, as my problem is not exactly from the field of psychology, but I hope to get some perspective. The thing is that I was treated for a mental disorder, but I found intolerance to all the drugs I was prescribed, so I had to stop taking them. But then there came something like a withdrawal effect and does not pass for several months. It manifests itself in a constant feeling of discomfort, endless twitching in my muscles and the fact that it is very difficult for me to focus on anything. Psychiatrists don't believe this is an effect of withdrawal and write these symptoms off as a progression of the underlying disorder, but I've never had problems focusing (they only appeared on the meds), nor have I had muscle problems. Now I don't know where to turn, can't work, and am tired of being tormented every day by extremely uncomfortable physical sensations. I can't read books or watch movies, although I used to enjoy them, but the concentration lost on the medication is not coming back. So I want to commit suicide. Do you think there is any other way out? I do not want to go to psychiatrists again, because psychotropic drugs do not help me. I just don't see a way out of this. Are there any other options, do you think?
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Good afternoon, Anya.
You should change psychiatrists.
If you have the diagnosis you have, then the treatment protocol is not quite right. either the diagnosis is wrong or the treatment is inappropriate.
In both cases it makes sense to change your doctor (psychiatrist or suicidologist, clinical psychotherapist).
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Hello.I was diagnosed with f33.9 (recurrent depressive disorder) I take fluoxetine, hydazepam and volprocom. I started having headaches and hearing voices. I see black pictures and speech is retarded. I still feel sad sometimes, can't remember where I am or who I am. Sometimes I switch to the name Vika. My name is Anya. What should I do?
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Good afternoon, Barbara.
The best way to get rid of this problem, in your case, is to look it in the eye.
Realize that you are a latent suicide and thus relieve your heartache. That's what a lot of people do. Sometimes you can miscalculate and then it's the last time.
If you want to change the situation, either deal with the source of the pain, or find another way to relieve it or (more correctly) find a suicidologist who can help you with it.
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Hello! I'm 13 years old and I made the biggest mistake.... I started cutting my hands and for 3 years I can't cope with it, it's like a drug I can't get rid of. Now I'm going over the edge and I'm cutting my whole body. I honestly don't know how to deal with it. Can you please give me some advice on how to get rid of it?
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Good day, Ludmila. Duration of consultation is possible from 1 hour to 2 but the most effective is usually an hour and a half. The price depends on the problems. You can see approximate prices here https://nedelkova.pro/prices.
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How much does your consultation cost and how long does it take?
Thank you.
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Good afternoon Inga.
You need to accept that this is gambling addiction.
Gambling addiction is an addiction-disease and should be treated.
Sit down and talk to your husband from the position that you are sick and ask him to help and support you in this treatment. Then together find a psychotherapist who specializes in addictions and co-dependencies and take a full course of treatment with him.
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Hello!
I am 29 years old. I have a husband and a 3 year old daughter.
My husband and I have been together for 9 years. About 3 years ago, I tried playing online casino games, and I got sucked in. I finally confessed to my husband. And that was it. I don't know how to move on. I feel that I lost his trust and I am very difficult, ashamed and bad. And naturally with the game I became aggressive in communication... The game faded into the background when I had financial problems and told my husband, but the aggressiveness remained. I feel just a little bit more and that's it... The end of everything. But I don't want that.
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Good afternoon, Jeanne. Definitely yes.
But pay attention to the need for a psychotherapist who is able to deal with chemical and hormonal changes after covida, as well as with the imbalance that is now apparently present. That is, an endocrine therapist is desirable. There are not many of them, but they do exist.
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Good day, the situation is as follows, I turned to a psychotherapist with the following requests: 48 years old, family and children - 0, mother-abuse, every contact tries to humiliate, there is depression, insomnia, especially after Covid, latent aggression, which "extinguished with beer", came to therapy with the request aokolokolishchem1-2syadia and depression, stopped using alcohol completely - went suicidal thoughts, the therapist ignores insomnia and depression. Gave me to read a book on meditation, write an emotion journal, which makes me happy. I say I don't know what I'm doing and ignore it. In therapy for 3 months, it's only gotten worse, much worse. Do you think we should change therapists?
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Good day, Anna.
You have a chance to be treated by a pediatric psychologist.
And also undergo vitamin and amino acid therapy. Because I'm seeing symptoms of a teenage hormonal boom. And in order for it to pass more calmly and not to give such emotional swings as you describe, vitamins and amino acids should be pibtrimka vitamins and amino acids.
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Hello! I am 13 years old and I often think about death. A long time ago I realized that I do not want to go through difficulties in life, I set goals, but there is no motivation to fulfill them. If I even catch fire with an idea about something, the motivation disappears as soon as something does not come out. I have normal relations with my fathers, but on the basis of this, I am shy to tell them, perhaps because I can not at least approximate their reaction. Often everything bothers me. When I am with my parents, I try not to show it. All my emotions were accumulated, and then they all spilled out into screaming and slobbering when no one is at home. There are also problems with self-evaluation, non-acceptance of my body and outward appearance, although not immediately realized through the mask of optimist. At times, you want to die and not feel anything. From afar, very grateful.
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Good afternoon. please apply for Skype counseling https://nedelkova.pro/skype-konsultaciya-psixologa And I will be happy to help your son. If he wants me to.
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Good evening. I have a 35 year old son who has a problem. It's been going on since high school. He's suicidal. Lonely, with a complex character, susceptible, resentful of his parents, brothers. Blames us for his failed life. He's working. And a recent visit to a psychologist ended badly.
My husband and I are desperate. Help him.
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Good afternoon, Catherine. The pain of loss always needs to be dealt with and worked through with someone. You have breakdowns precisely because you hold back and force yourself to redirect. You need to grieve. You need to sob and hurt. Allow yourself to do that. Ideally under the supervision of a crisis counselor. At the very least, under the supervision of a medical professional or a friend who won't lose their head and can hold you and wait for you to burn out until you're like, "That's it. Empty." And only then the second stage.
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Good night. A week ago I lost my son of 15 T years. I can't make myself do anything, any action ends in hysterics whether it's going to the store or cooking. I have a daughter 14 years old very afraid to lose now friendship and connection with her. She is having a very difficult time right now and I can't fully help her. How do we proceed at the moment?
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Hello, Oleg.
I can help you to change what you write about, but it is not a matter of a couple of words, but of psychotherapy.
Sign up to me for a consultation and after a couple of consultations you will see the result and then decide for yourself whether you want further and greater improvements in your life. https://nedelkova.pro/skype-konsultaciya-psixologa
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Hello, Alexander.
It is impossible to tell you the methods of struggle in two words.
Sign up for a Skype consultation and I will teach you fail-safe methods of working with criticism, skills and formulas of refusal, as well as we will remove your "Nice Guy" syndrome and some insecurity in your decisions, opinions and actions in one consultation
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Hello Irina.
Your mother has attention deficit disorder and possibly the beginning of a disease such as senile marasmus.
Call a psychiatrist at home.
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Hello, Olga.
In your case it is necessary to put her in front of the fact of eviction if 1,2,3,4....
And if the conditions will not be fulfilled aki evict your colleague. In this case she will be offended for some time, or will go on your terms. Otherwise, do not expect respect from her. only contempt and use of your kindness and gentleness.
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Hello, Vladimir.
You have depression, you need to see a crisis psychologist for therapy.
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Hello, Natalia.
You have made some serious mistakes, but there is no point in worrying. You can no longer be accused of anything and even more so take your daughter away.
However, I advise you to consult a female psychologist and with his help to correct your mistakes and arrange your personal life. as the advice of your girlfriends is quite stupid and even harmful to you and your possible future happiness.
If there will be a desire you can work on these topics with me, and you can with any other practicing psychologist.
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Hello, Natalia.
To all appearances, the reasons for your rectum not healing are psychosomatic, and as I am not sorry to admit, but you have consulted a rather inexperienced psychotherapist (psychologist in your case is not suitable for you in principle). As an experienced and psychotherapist is a professional of his business often enough in his practice to meet with problems of the large intestine and about the nearest areas of the body, and therefore has practical methods of their treatment. Look for another psychotherapist or if you want you can sign up for a Skype consultation with me and there on its outcome make further decisions. https://nedelkova.pro/skype-konsultaciya-psixologa
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Here's the situation. 8 months ago, I divorced my husband, in the whore has a daughter who lives with me. The husband in a month after our separation odruzhivshivsya with other, in which she has 2 children. I moved to another city. I did not want serious relationships and started an affair with a friend Andriyem, who fell in love with me, I tried many times to break these relationships, But every time he persuaded me to stay, several times he left his wife and came to me saying that he would stay, but all his parents and friends asked him to return to his family, which he did. In the remaining tizhdni he came a third time I boiled I did not want it, he said that it was enough, but after two days he went to the river and stayed there. I blocked his number and said that on this one is definitely a speck. I was terribly depressed, my friends told me to switch to someone else. I registered on a dating site and met a guy, met him, I and he did not want to have a serious relationship but only sex, which we did, then he gave me money, so to speak material support. On the way back we were spun by a car, police officers arrested us, took us to the police station, I wrote an explanation of everything as it was, they accused me of prostitution, they wanted to write a protocol and threatened to pass it to the opposition council and take my child away from me, I was angry, I tried to negotiate, they settled for a very small amount. Now I am worried abi none of my neighbors did not recognize and did not take the daughter. I'm lost in my own...
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Hello! I am 27 years old, and I notice that in the last half a year I have become very aggressive, not in the sense that I want to beat someone, but I respond with aggression, often even without reason. I'm often irritated by something, a lot of things piss me off... I react to comments from my parents too.
aggressively, but then I realize it wasn't worth it. People
are often annoying. I also have low self-esteem and insecurity.
and self-consciousness and shyness. Frequent mood swings. In terms of intimate relationships, with the presence of fear of being rejected and get a girl's answer "no", all turned into self-satisfaction, which is easier to self than to find a girl. Help me please!
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Hello Olga, I don't know which doctor to turn to for help. I am 47 years old, second marriage for 11 years. I have a son from the first marriage of 24 years. The first marriage was not for love (5 years). In the second time I loved, but my husband (has two adult children) drank (not often) and became aggressive: he broke furniture and glass in the house; outside the house there was a fight with others and I pulled him out of the police (he was beaten very badly, after that he was silky for three months). Once hit my son (because of his own). My child wanted to report him to the police, but I talked him out of it. He could treat me rudely, even sober - some pokes, slaps, spankings that I can not tolerate. From the side of him was cheating, which I experienced very painfully; several times tried to kick him out, but something stops. For 11 years, he has little contact with me, my questions ignored, many topics for me closed, frank is not. There is no trace of love left. He began to irritate me, piss me off, make me angry. Sometimes I even hate him. Now my husband has stopped "outrageous" and tries to give me "some" attention. But I don't need it from him anymore. The thing is that for several years I can not heal from the disease of the rectum. For 4 years I had 2 operations to remove hemorrhoids and one operation to remove a fissure. But the disease has not receded, everything repeats again and again. I decided that the problem is not healing in my head. Turned to a psychotherapist, psychologist, but they did not help me. Tried to give myself settings, not ...
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